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Tuesday, 22 September 2009

  • GQ

    I have noticed recently that Gabriel is tucking in all his shirts -- including and especially shirts that are not meant for tucking. And he is tucking shirts into pants that were made without the thought that a boy might want to tuck in, say, a sweatshirt. Consequently,  I had to ask him this afternoon why, once again, he was awkwardly tucked:

    Me (kindly, of course): Son, why have you been tucking in all your shirts?

    Him: Because I want to be a gentleman. *pause* You do like gentlemen, right Mom?

Monday, 23 March 2009

  • Age is a State of Mind

    I was talking to my sister (10 years my junior) last week via the telephone about the American Idol (hereinafter referred to as “AI”) contestants. She brought up Lil Rounds and I heard my self say: “She dresses old, doesn’t she? I mean she dresses like a 40-year old woman!!!”

    Then it dawned on me that I am almost a 40-year old woman! HA!

Thursday, 19 March 2009

Wednesday, 18 March 2009

  • 3 Months Old

    Baby Boy is three months old as of Sunday. Hard to believe. He is doing well. Over the last couple of weeks he has been sick with a cough, but it was productive and he handled it very well. He had gotten up to 9lbs 3 oz, but then dropped back down to 8 lbs 13 oz (where he was the week before he got sick). He wasn't eating too well with all that mucous in his tummy, but he is much improved now and on the rise again at 10lbs 3 oz.

    My baby boy still has blue eyes and I so much hope he keeps them!


    He's rather strong, I think. He can lift his head and chest up off the floor while on his tummy. He has been rolling over for a month and a half now (latter part of January), which seems odd to me. But I have the worse memory of how things should be...

    He smiled in response to me on February 15 – made my Sabbath even sweeter. He smiles at one of his puppy toys regularly. He is kind of stingy with smiles to me – I hope he's just trying to make me work for them!


    He was baptised on February 22nd.

    He is just the cutest little baby ever. I mean he is so handsome! I really can't look at him too long for fear I will devour him!

Wednesday, 18 February 2009

Monday, 16 February 2009

  • My covenant keeping children

    The other day and several times since, Sissy's prayer over a meal has included, “Thank You for a daddy that works hard so we can have money and for a mommy who buys us food and makes it for us, and for a mommy and daddy who are kind to us and love us.” Her gratitude is overwhelming to me.


    The Boy, when he prays, especially after a challenging day, bows his head and prays, “Please God forgive me for disobeying, and please help me to obey, and *banging his fist on his leg with each word* Not. To. Disobey!” His contrite heart is precious to me!




    Baby girl often carries her Bible around, and, as strange as it may sound, often retrieves it after I have corrected her for something. The other day she was running around the living room with her Bible raised in the air, singing, “Holy, Holy, Holy!” This young and simple love of God and His Word makes my heart rejoice.


    And Baby Boy cries. I am in awe of the strength of this young one! (Psalm 8:2).


Sunday, 08 February 2009

Friday, 06 February 2009

  • Nos. One and Two


    The Boy told me that an older boy came up to him at school and told him, “I'm gonna pick you up and throw you on the ground!” His reply was, with his index finger indicating, “I have one rule: no picking me up and throwing me on the ground!”


    He also asks to be chucked (rather than tucked) into bed. I think it is so cute that I tell him, “I'll be right in to chuck you in!”


    And when something annoys him, he says that it gives him the grumps. It reminds me of when Sissy was about that age and she would say, when she was sad, that she was down in the dumpster.


    And speaking of Sis, she has chapel at school every Tuesday morning. On Monday nights she goes on and on about how she loves chapel and cannot wait. After school on Tuesday last week, she went on about how she loves chapel. I asked her why, and she replied that it was because it was like church.


    Well, Tuesday night she went on at the dinner table about loving chapel, and I, wanting her daddy to hear her response straight from her, again asked why she she liked chapel. Her response: “Because Mr. Voelkel teaches about God and I want to learn more about God.”

     


Monday, 02 February 2009

  • Hi.

    Michael here.



    I went to the doctor today. I don't like to be manhandled, but Mama seemed to enjoy it. She was very happy. Apparently, I am growing – from a measly 3lbs 9oz at birth to a whopping 7lbs 9oz at 7 weeks. I also grew 3 inches and am 19 inches long now! Mama did get some not-so-good news, too, but she did not seem too concerned. My belly button sticks out all the time – and Mama is always pushing it in (which kinda gets on my nerves) - but it is just an umbilical hernia and should get better over time. And my eyes always have gooey sleep in them – and Mama is always wiping them with a washcloth and rubbing my eyes (which kinda gets on my nerves) – but they are just blocked tear ducts which should also get better over time. However, in the meantime, it has become painfully obvious that Mama is going to keep up her prodding and rubbing...good thing she gives me yummy milk and loves on me so much! Speaking of, I'm hungry...


  • Full of Love

    I love those full, plump lips! I love her little pucker when she kisses me!


Thursday, 29 January 2009

Sunday, 18 January 2009

  • About My Other Chirren

    One noon time, the chirren and I were sitting at the table enjoying our lunch and conversation. Then, Sissy volunteers, “Mom, I think I will die before Gabriel.” Before I had a chance to respond, The Boy piped in and said, “No, no, no, Sis! You have a soul that can never die!” What sage words from a 4-year old!

    "There is no charge for awesomeness... or attractiveness." Name that film. 

    Going to his first birthday party sans siblings -- where he rode and/or sat upon a horse and a bull. And brought home some souvenirs of same on the bottom of his shoes.

    Yesterday, Sis and I were lying in bed and talking. Baby Girl came up in the conversation and Sissy said, “Sophie is so pretty, and so cute, and her laugh is so funny and makes us all happy, but she is so mischievous!” Quite observant, she is...


    Quintessential Sophie



    Yummy candy necklace she made, with help. After wearing and eating the necklace for a while, she sported a pink beard. And rather well, I would say.

    And today, in all of Sissy's pondering, she has determined that 22 is the perfect age for marrying. Now I ask you, what man is ever going to be good enough for this angel:


    I am not sure what man will convince her father AND win her heart, but I have been praying for him for years now!

    And in all the craziness of a baby being born early, the holidays, vacay from school and work, a husband being sick, being up all hours of the night, and on and on, I think it is safe to say that in our home, jammies are the new day clothes.



Friday, 16 January 2009

  • The newest Baby Boy

    Simply, he is doing great! But the poor little tyke got circumcised on my birthday (13th) and was a little grumpy for a day or two. However, he is a sweet boy again.
     
    02Jan2009

    Baby Boy has started to be a little more aware between naps, which is really fun, except between the hours of 01:00 and 05:00. He is just so handsome! I just love his eyes.


    08Jan2009

    I need to weigh him to see how he is doing – but I am kind of on automatic changing his diaper and redressing him. I'll try tonight. He is eating well and a couple of his preemie outfits seem to be getting tighter in the length. 

    08Jan2009

    Even though he is tiny, he seems long – hopefully another tall boy! Otherwise he and Baby Girl will be our set of hobbit children, especially if he turns out to have curly hair! (That's just me dreaming – it looks straight).

     


    11Jan2009

    And this is for Sara L.:

    09Jan2009

Wednesday, 14 January 2009

  • Overheard

    Sunday evening it began to rain. Sissy ran into the den and queried, “Is it raining?” Upon receiving confirmation from her daddy that it was indeed raining, the children began proclaiming, “Yay! It's a rainy day! It's a rainy day! Let's have a celebration! Let's do the Cha-Cha!”

Friday, 09 January 2009

  • Thanks to all who continue to pray for us. We are improving daily!


    27Dec2008

    I was enjoying (as best as you can when you are in pain), my rest from work; however, I received a rude awakening last Saturday when my hubby fell ill with fever, tucked himself into bed with a thermometer, NyQuil and a glass of water, and was not to be seen again until Tuesday when he pulled himself out of bed to go to the doctor (the fever dissipated, then spiked again). The good news is that he is on the mend. But, if I am being honest, I felt robbed of two days of recuperation – and I was running out of the good drugs provided only via prescription. Boo Hoo. Further good news is that once I corrected my attitude, the work necessary for a family of six to live went much more smoothly. And by the grace of God, the pain in the incision began to improve substantially over the weekend, despite the extra work and decrease of sleep.

    Sissy enjoying her tea set and service -- she actually makes a very tasty cup of tea!

    Baby Boy is apparently enjoying eating and sleeping – praise God. The stats are: Birth Weight, 12/15/08, 3lbs 7.9oz; discharge weight, 12/25/08, 3lbs 13.5oz; 2 week ped. visit, 12/30/08, 4lbs 3oz; Home weigh, 1/4/09, 4lbs 9.6oz; and Home weigh today, 1/9/09, 5lbs 6.4oz. I can hardly believe it!!! I am so pleased and thankful to God for this little man-child's increase! His forehead wrinkles have filled out, so instead of ten, he is down to 4-5 wrinkles when he furrows his brow. Very Cute. Looking less and less like a 90-year old man...


    The chirren returned to school this week. Sigh. I miss my Sissy. The Boy only goes in the morn on Wednesday and Thursday, so I do not have great withdrawals from that separation. He is blending sounds and reading some simple words. He is very excited. My baby girl is getting so big – she actually turned 2 on the 29th (and I have yet to blog about it or officially celebrate it!). She is a crack-up, but I will resist musing on her uniqueness and save her little eccentricities for a post of her very own.


    The chirren's teacher has picked up and delivered home safely the chirren everyday. That has been such a huge help. It is still a juggling act for me to try to maintain a reasonable schedule with feeding and tending to the chirren.

    28Dec2008

    We have received a generous amount of meals, and I cannot emphasize too much how helpful this act of mercy is! It helps tremendously in every other thing I must do, and helps me to do it cheerfully, without being totally exhausted. Another thing that helps to be cheerful: afternoon nap. It is not a pretty picture when I don't at least lie down to rest. I feel like the fact I was so close to death should cause me to resist handily all temptation to grumpiness, irritability, anger, etc. Alas, it has not. I am pitiful. However, I am not hopeless. I continue to ask for forgiveness and pray for grace. As I have heard summarized succinctly, “sanctification is slow and hard.”

    One last fun story. Our neighbor, again the one that rushed over to help me on the day Baby was born, is so protective of me! Several evenings ago, some young kids drank too much and were causing a bit of havoc in the neighborhood. It basically culminated outside my neighbor's home. One mother also ended up out there and was being mouthy. My neighbor warned her to be quiet, advising her of my condition and the fact I was getting up to feed the babe frequently during the night. The woman initially heeded the warning, but then began being loud again and added cursing to her repertoire . My sweet, retired, elderly neighbor pointed her finger at that woman and warned her that she had 2 minutes to skedaddle, or she would be calling the police. Now who needs a mom nearby when you have a wonderful neighbor like that?!?

    Sissy reading to her babies

    I hope everybody enjoyed the Twelve Days of Christmas!

    31Dec2008

    N'Night!

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